2008
Apr 29

You’ve heard of them, but you’ve never thought about having a wine tasting party of your own. Then again, maybe you have thought about it, but changed your mind because you were afraid that everyone would come just to taste all the wines and go home a little on the inebriated side. You can remove those thoughts from your mind because the purpose of a wine tasting party is to do just that: taste it!

Your wine tasting party can consist of red wine, white wine, sparkling wine, or a combination of all three. You can serve unsalted bread or crackers with water in order for your guests to cleanse the taste of the wine before tasting another. You may also choose some light appetizers that will complement your personal wine theme. Spice it up a little if you like with a little light humor. It is a party, after all, and does not need to be stuffy just because the theme is wine tasting rather than just fun and games.

For your wine tasting experience, you do not want to drink the wine as you would if you were seated at the dinner table with a nice meal. For wine tasting, you want to first take the glass and hold it up to the light or against a white background. It should be clear with a brilliant color. While holding the stem of the glass and keeping the base on the table, gently swirl the wine in the glass. Doing this allows the wine to mix with the surrounding air, which releases it aroma into the air. While you inhale deeply, take in the fragrance of the wine. In most cases, a wine that smells good will taste good. To taste it, you want to sip it and roll it in your mouth to savor all of the flavors, while taking the time to pick the very essence of its aroma, flavor, and delicacies. Make note of every little thing including whether it tastes fruity, bitter, sour, or some other combination. Your host or hostess should have little booklets for you to write down information about each wine that you taste.

Mrs. Party… Gail Leino is the internet’s leading authority on selecting the best possible party supplies, using proper etiquette and manners while also teaching organizational skills and fun facts. Free Party Games to help complete your event.

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The Role of the Public Speaker

Posted by admin on Apr 29th, 2008
2008
Apr 29

Throughout the years of my life, I have addressed many people through public speaking. I have also met many, who could not make themselves go before an audience, in spite of their, deep personal knowledge, of interesting subject matter.

If you are having this troubling experience, read on, and we will explore some of the tricks, and tribulations, of public speaking.

One of the most frightening experiences a public speaker may encounter is; walking out on the stage and seeing hundreds of people in the audience. This can be overwhelming to public speakers, even those with years of experience. One might try to look at your audience, intently. Seems aggressive to some people, but, this is the key to being “in charge”.

Why would a speaker want to be “in charge” of their audience? A speaker needs to be “the leader” of the group. If I am in charge of a group, then, they go where I want them to go. If the speaker is leading the group, they will more easily follow along with you, as you speak. This does not preclude knowledge of your subject matter, and confidence, supported by poise, while delivering the material.

A speaker also needs to monitor their audience, even while trying to focus on all the important skills involved, with the delivery process. Listen to your audience noise level, are they coughing, yawning, talking with each other? This is a sign, that you are losing their interest. At this point, you must have the poise to think about what you are doing wrong, correct the problem, and move on seamlessly. This is a great deal of emotional strain in the beginning of your speaking life. Later, with experience, it will become easy.

Monitor yourself; sometimes you can use strong emotions to bring your audience “back to life”. I have, on occasion, raised my voice level to alarming levels and became visibly demonstrative to effect change in my audience attentiveness. Startling them back into line is my way of saying it.

One must not drone on about a particular subject. Make it short and interesting. How do you know what is interesting to your audience? Test them, and watch their faces. Many people faces will light up with quizzical expressions when you hit the sweet spot. Stick with that style and content for a few minutes, then move on to a new test. It actually becomes fun, when you get the hang of it.

It seems overwhelming when you read this article, but, application of these principles can help you become a skillful and strong public speaker.

Let us not forget to mention a few more tactics. How are you going to end your speech? I try to end with a very emotional appeal. Zeal and gusto are my favorite adjectives. Leave that door open for questions after you are done.

Many in your audience will want to talk with your privately, when the speech is over. If possible, oblige them, as it endears you to your audience. It may also open doors for further speaking engagements, in the future. The more you do it, the more you will like it.

This article may only wet your appetite for the challenge of public speaking. Move forward and try it, share your knowledge with others. They will benefit and you will too.

The most memorable part of my public speaking education came at my graduation from the Gabriel Richard Public Speaking course.
The golden nugget of public speaking, “your audience expects you to be a leader, they do not know that this is your first time at the podium”. I took that ball, ran with it, now facing audiences for thirty five years, I love it more than ever.

Native American public speaker and teacher. Working for the federal government, tribes, and families across America.

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